Visit A Sick Friend

Visit A Sick Friend

What do you do when you visit a sick friend? When your friend or loved one is sick or injured, either at the hospital or at home, visiting is important. But it can be awkward and uncomfortable. Rest and recuperation can be depressing. Once you’ve marathon...
Taking Someone To The Doctor

Taking Someone To The Doctor

If have an intimidating medical appointment, it is always wise to take a loved one. When you are in pain or worried, you miss stuff. You forget details. You start thinking about the ramifications of one statement and miss the next 3. Having a backup with you is great...
Caregiving & Friendship

Caregiving & Friendship

I am lucky, I have cared for and been cared for all of my life. My family and I have had more than our share of medical care over the years. It doesn’t get easier, but it is manageable. You can be the caregiver or just a supportive friend, but regardless of your...
Choosing a Get Well Gift

Choosing a Get Well Gift

Choosing a gift for someone in the hospital or who is at home recuperating is difficult. Flowers are impractical; their water has to be changed; they die and smell bad; they are not uplifting for long. Food is a no-no if they are on a restricted diet. And personal...
Reclaiming Your Home

Reclaiming Your Home

Everywhere you look are ghosts. They are memories best not remembered, at least now, while they are still raw. They hit you when you are least expecting them, taking your breath away. It is time to reclaim your home. After any emotional trauma you need to make peace...